Hillary Swank passes cuz she's playing a young guy. Also, too bad I didn't have Dr Dobson around in my youth to set me straight. Ack. at least he focusses most on biological males. for two reasons: 1. tomboys are not as transgressive. 2. girls don't matter anyway.
also, the way to make your boys straight is for mothers to defer to fathers all the damn time. Apparently, if my (hypothetical future) kids call me "dad" it will make them queer. muahahahaha